Disappointing Diamonds are the Rarest of Them All by Father John off of his latest studio album; God’s Favorite Customer uses unconventional, almost unsettling metaphors to describe the love that is shared between him and his wife Emma. The chorus goes as:
The theme of the song is to go against the traditional narrative of love being this perfect idea that love lasts forever but argues that love is actually flawed and not unique or special. Despite this love is still a “Diamond” and diamonds rarely disappoint. Love doesn’t have to be a fairytale for people to still enjoy it.
The chorus focuses on the central theme while the verses use outright bizarre comparisons further his idea of love being imperfect.
“Like a pervert on a crowded bus
A glare of love bears down on us”
To compare love to the glare of a pervert is a gross outlandish juxtaposition, but in this case it works to further the theme song because illuminates the idea that there is both bad and good in love, but ultimately it’s still a “diamond”.
“Like a carcass left out in the heat
This love is bursting out of me”
Again we see a gross outlandish comparison but this line also has a deeper meaning because in many of his songs FJM infers to himself as a lifeless/emotional being, but despite this flaw in their love it’s still a positive experience.
“Like an oil tanker tipped at sea
This love’s contaminated me”
Particularly with this line we see the tragedy of an oil spillage but also the good in love, so while there is tragedy in love it ultimately triumphs.
Father John Misty is one of my favorite artists because he often goes against societal norms to define meaning in his lyrics to critique societal norms.